How to Enjoy Your Own Private Show Using Sex Cam Sites

With each new leap of technology our ability to create and consume pornography has only grown. Never has this been more true than with the advent of the internet. Streaming, and the normalization of high speed internet has created yet another venue, one that makes getting a private, personalized show accessible to even the common man. Live cams and so-called “cam-girls” have exploded in popularity in the last few years. Through the anonymity the internet provides, anyone with a webcam and a computer connection now can engage in live webcam sex and market themselves as a porn star online. Read on for your guide to using sex cam sites.

What are cam sites and where can I find

them?

Cam sites are websites through which the live sex shows are hosted. There are several popular ones like MyFreeCams, Chaturbate, CamSoda, and LiveJasmine. Each has their own pros and cons. For instance: MyFreeCams primarily consists of solo, female performers while Chaturbate has a more diverse userbase. Most offer a limited number of free credits or minutes in order to explore their service. Take advantage of these to explore what’s available and see what you’re interested in paying more money for.

What sort of things can I expect to see

in a Cam Show?

As there is no limit to the different types of sexual proclivities, so too is there no limit to the shows offered by different cam performers. There are cam girls (and cam boys) performing solo, masturbating or performing other sexual acts for the camera as well as duos or groups that perform live sex shows together. Some cam shows do not even include sex, the performer(s) might simply be going about their day (cleaning etc.) in particular outfits or in the nude. The primarily appeal of cam sites and webcam sex is the personal aspect and intimacy fostered by the knowledge that you get to directly interact with the cam model.

It is not just a static video that you watch while the performers stay static. You can engage in sex chats with a performer you feel a special connection to, they may ask you to perform sexual acts of your own. Webcam sex is the natural progression of phone sex and pay-per-minute phone sex hotlines.

Types of “Cam Shows”

There are three general levels of privacy available in Live Cam Shows: Public chats, Private chats that allow voyeurs, and True Private shows.

Public Chat/Show

At the lowest tier are Public, or Free, chats with the Cam performer. These are free to enter and exist as a way for the performer to advertise themselves and for you, the viewer to determine if you like the performer before paying more. These Public chats are usually available to view even without making an account on the site. As such, many sites do not allow nudity on Public chats or if they do the performer may choose not to provide it as an enticement for their viewers to pay more for a premium experience. In Public chats you can still send messages to the performer, as can others, and the performer will respond to them either answering questions or fulfilling requests. In these public chats the performer makes most of their money off of tips, sent to them in the form of tokens purchased by the viewer (member). As they make their money exclusively off of these tips they are unlikely to acknowledge you or respond to your requests without being tipped.

Private Chats with Voyeurs

The next level of privacy available is a private chat that allows voyeurs. With this option you, the member that initiates the private chat is the only one allowed to interact with the performer/model and everything they are doing on camera will be for your benefit. These can either be a set price or, more likely, will be charged at a pay-per-minute rate. This will depend on both the performers preferences and the site they use. However, in these chats the performer also allows other viewers to enjoy the show, without interacting, at a reduced (also pay-per-minute) rate. These can be appealing as you can enjoy the experience of a private show without paying the higher rates of an exclusive show.

How do I get away from the chat rooms

and get a personal show?

True Private Shows

These true private, or exclusive, live sex shows are the most expensive option you will likely find. Think of them as the equivalent to getting a private room with a dancer at the club. Since the performer does not have the option to get additional income from other viewers (voyeurs) you will pay an elevated rate. This is well worth the price for a truly private show. With these you know that the performer is 100% focused on your desires and your experience. They aren’t distracted by comments from other viewers and they do not feel the need to be universally appealing. Even through a screen you are able to connect more closely and on a more fundamental level with your favorite performer. You can cultivate a relationship with them (remember, this is their job) which will result in a more rewarding experience for both of you.

How does payment work?

You are probably a little wary about how payment for these sites work. No one wants incriminating charges on their credit card bill. You certainly don’t want to be scammed. The good news is that most cam sites understand your worry and the cam girls are much more likely to be the ones getting scammed. For greatest peace of mind purchase the token or credits through the cam site and complete all financial interactions through that protected medium. Switching to outside payment services like Venmo or Paypal can make you more vulnerable to being found out and gives the other party an increased freedom not to hold up their end of the transaction.